tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3870948776967050505.post2067238682990611741..comments2023-09-28T20:22:43.542+05:30Comments on Anirudh's World: Testing my patience~nmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16483363042572158612noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3870948776967050505.post-21306493174956116692008-07-14T23:24:00.000+05:302008-07-14T23:24:00.000+05:30oh no! poor Ani and poor you. its certainly dealin...oh no! poor Ani and poor you. its certainly dealing with this day in and day out. Is he getting enough sleep? Try asking him what is wrong with him.. he might just tell you. Have there been any changesa t school? Try asking his teacer if he is same in school. that might give you a clue what's wrong.Savanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13781198953037866788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3870948776967050505.post-22723412736396992572008-07-14T21:30:00.000+05:302008-07-14T21:30:00.000+05:30maybe just a phase he will grow out of with some p...maybe just a phase he will grow out of with some patience and support.<BR/>Check to see if something/ someone is bothering him at the daycare<BR/>Also is he sleeping well? Cheeky can be quite a lot of trouble when he hasn't had a good night's sleep!!Preethihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10943344283863649487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3870948776967050505.post-34352563364698777272008-07-14T13:59:00.000+05:302008-07-14T13:59:00.000+05:30Well what can I say ...except hope for the bestWell what can I say ...except hope for the bestSwatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14263330596396584816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3870948776967050505.post-78730085068776007522008-07-14T12:44:00.000+05:302008-07-14T12:44:00.000+05:30big hugs to you NM!is something bothering him at d...big hugs to you NM!<BR/><BR/>is something bothering him at daycare or home?<BR/><BR/>agree with what PG says! seems like sensible advice! easier said than done, but nothing ventured, nothing gained either!<BR/><BR/>all the best! you are a super mom and am sure you will do just the right thing!<BR/><BR/>cheers!<BR/><BR/>abhaMama - Miahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06330103540647472728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3870948776967050505.post-38947610902612457492008-07-14T11:47:00.000+05:302008-07-14T11:47:00.000+05:30Priyanka : That was a very good article! Thanks fo...Priyanka : That was a very good article! Thanks for sharing!~nmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16483363042572158612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3870948776967050505.post-25155616177821482412008-07-13T01:00:00.000+05:302008-07-13T01:00:00.000+05:30may be thats normal among kids....my nephew does l...may be thats normal among kids....<BR/>my nephew does like tht!...[even i used to do the same thing at that age]broca's areahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10978879187404578908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3870948776967050505.post-30341214057492673672008-07-12T14:56:00.000+05:302008-07-12T14:56:00.000+05:30Hi, I am probably a bit inexperienced to offer any...Hi, I am probably a bit inexperienced to offer any advice on this since Mira is a bit too small and think tantrums are yet to arrive. But, I do think that it is a phase though which will hopefully soon go away - keep the reasoning going on and just don't give up too soon!Mira's momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12144201583235548117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3870948776967050505.post-85768653413279144822008-07-12T08:41:00.000+05:302008-07-12T08:41:00.000+05:30Here is something I read online: http://life.famil...Here is something I read online: http://life.familyeducation.com/tantrums/toddler/53393.html?page=1<BR/><BR/>I hope this helps.Priyankahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02667344885898519767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3870948776967050505.post-70539548947679997122008-07-12T01:27:00.000+05:302008-07-12T01:27:00.000+05:30This is surely a phase, but that still does not so...This is surely a phase, but that still does not solve your problem which you have now. Actually, you have the answer to it . The only thing which i could tell you is the same old thing: Keep trying. Don't give in; Be strong - he can cry and demand -its Ok, but ina decent way and he has to learn (give him time to learn) that he cannot get everything he wants. Tell him that you are getting upset, if he does not stop. IGNORE his bad behaviour as much as possible, do not punish him for that. Just don't give in. It is his age. I have seen mothers with children his age and there isn't much you can do about it, except not to feel bad yourself. There is nothing wrong in his behaviour. It shows that he is growing and learning. He needs to learn his limits and he is testing you and as they often say he wants to feel these (invisible)limits.<BR/>I know all this does not help really. But then yo have to take time in such situartions. How long do you think he will do it. Time it next time. Eye him carefully and objectively, instead. Try it. It will help. I'm myself trying it out when risha throws his tantrums, even if they are only at home and not outside.<BR/>Believe me, I can imagine how you feel. We have too common genes for me not to be able to! :) <BR/>Drink a cup of coffee while he is throwing his tantrum. You get my point.<BR/>I dread these times, as I know they will be coming for me too.PGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03509732589537039753noreply@blogger.com